Showing posts with label Purification of the Heart. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Purification of the Heart. Show all posts

Monday, 10 February 2014

Purification of the heart - Part 3 - The diseases

Love of the world


There are five classical rulings, which determine how loving something worldly is viewed.

1 - Obligatory (wajib)
2 - Recommended (mandub)
3 - Permissible (mubah)
4 - Reprehensible (makruh)
5 - Forbidden (haram)

Example: We should love certain aspects of the world, like the Quran, the Ka'ba, our Prophet (saw) etc. In regards of wealth we should love helping needy with it.
The Prophet (saw) prohibited to condemn the world. He said: "Do not curse the world, for God created the world, and the world is a means to reaching God. - Hadith

Whether loving the world is good or bad for us, depends on what it leads us to. Does it lead to a arrogance and greed? OR does it lead to goodness? Attaining wealth is not a negative thing per se, it is just the outcome that makes it either bad or good. Does acquiring wealth means you are neglecting religious tasks or falling into sinful matters? Then it is considered blameworthy! But if you use your wealth to do good and it does not preoccupy your thoughts and invade your religiosity than it is considered praiseworthy.
One other illness in this world is the love of praise.


"The world is a bridge; so pass over it to the next world, but do not try to build on it." - Prophet Isa (as) 


Envy

Envy (hasad) is a severe disease and even considered the root of all diseases by some scholars.The Quran teaches us too seek refuge in God from "the evil of the envier when he envies" (Qur'an, 113:5).
The Prophet (saw) said that envy consumes good deeds as the fire destroyes dry food. The evil eye is often linked to envy, thou it is not necessary.
Envy is when one wishes that a blessing may be taken away from someone. This blessing can be anything, a house, wife, or even a dress. A blessing (ni'mah) is something that Allah gives us, envying someone for their blessings would mean actually questioning why God has given them these blessings! This makes envy despicable and forbidden.
Imam Mawlud gives us treatments for envy.
1 - Act consciously against one's caprice. Be objective and not let your caprice take over you.
2 - Do something that will benefit the person you envy.
Envy can damage one's sanity, when they keep on thinking about the things they envy in a person.  One must understand that it is Allah who distributes the blessings and gives us or does not give us the things we have or we would like to have,' Allah is all-knowing and wise and knows whom to give which and how much blessings. A key to getting rid of envy is to establish Taqwa, having a sense of awe of God.


Blameworthy Modesty

Modesty is considered praisworthy in Islam. However if the modesty would prevent us from seeking knowledge, because we would be to shy to ask for questions than modesty is something blameworthy. We also should not be modest in term of denouncing tyranny or corruption. 


Fantasising


Engaging in matters that are of no concern to us is a disease, such as fantasising about a persons beauty one is not married to. If an sction is forbidden then even thinking about it is forbidden too. But also thinking about faults and weaknesses of other people is a widespread disease now-a-days. The prophet (saw) said: "There is a tree in Paradise reserved for one whose own faults preoccupied him from considering the faults of others." - Hadith
It is important for us to focus on our own shortcomings then rather focusing on people's faults as time is short and we should be making the most out of our time.


Fear of poverty


"Satan threatens you with poverty, and he commands you to immorality. But God promises you His forgiveness and bounty" - Qur'an 2:268
The fear to lose one's poverty can be very strong, to the point that people deprive the needy of their share and even do not spent on themselves. A person who has this irrational fear is very vulnerable in transgessing laws to secure and increase their wealth. It is important for us to understand that it is Allah alone who gives us our wealth, and who can take it from us again. Contenment is very important so we will not worry too much about losing our wealth. Be content and happy with what you have and expect the best from Allah.


Ostentation

Purification of the heart; page 44/45
"What I fear most for my community is doing things other than the sake of God" - Hadith
Ostentation means showing off - doing something for the sake of telling it to other people and get the praise or fame for it.
Imam Mawlud tells us about three signs of ostentation:
1 & 2 - Laziness and lack of action in religious deeds: Feeling lazy and unwilling to pray or read Quran at home when no people are around you, but praying and reading loads of Quran once in the mosque among people.
3 - increasing one's action when one is praised and decreasing one's actions in absence of praise

The cure of ostentaion is to remove this four things from one's heart: love of praise, fear of blame, desire for wordly from people and fear of harm from people. To achieve this it is important to nurish the certainty that only God can benefit or harm us. An other thing we can do to prevent ostentation is to pray at night alone, to read the Quran in private and to give charity without telling anybody.


Relying on other than God

When we rely on any other than God, it is a sign of not having enough trust and reliance on God. Everything good comes from HIM, and people can never help us, if it was not for God making them able to be helpful to us. It is among the basis of Islam to have Tawwakul - trust and reliance on God. 



Saturday, 18 January 2014

Purification of the Heart: Part 2 - The diseases

Diseases of the heart

In order to fight the diseases we must be aware of them, I'm going to dedicate a few posts that summarise the diseases as mentioned it the book "Purification of the heart" by Hamza Yusuf. 


Miserliness


What is miserliness? 

Miserliness has two aspects: 

1) The first is regarding the sharia law (rights due to God and to His creation). Zakat is the annual charity distributed to the needy. Miserliness in not paying the Zakat is forbidden, haram. Also one needs to support his wife and children, even after a divorce the man must pay child support.

2) The second aspect is in terms of valor. One should never create difficulties over paltry matters. A creditor should not be demanding especially if the debtor is not able to pay the credit back yet. An understanding creditor is one who has valor.

The muslim tradition in regards to charity is to give away from what one loves. Generosity is one of the highest virtues of Islam, the Prophet (saw) was known as the most generous of people..

"You will not attain to righteousness until you spend of what you love" (QUR'AN, 3:92)

The ethology of miserliness is love of the material aspects of the world. A miserly person clings to his wealth and hoards it.

How to treat it? 

The treatment for miserliness is realising that it takes a lot of exhaustion to achieve the wealth one seeks. This can occupy a person for his whole lifetime. In the end, life will end some day. Death awaits everybody, old or young, poor or rich.
Also nobody likes a miser, not even misers like each other. This hatred should also help in treating the disease.

Wantonness 


What is wantonness? 

Wantonness is a desire to need and want more. Particularly vulnerable are the world's most affluent societies. Those societies are very pleased with their standard of living and the extravagance. People even live beyond their means to be part of a certain lifestyle. A product of wantonness is that people fall willingly into debt in order to achieve a certain standard of living.


"God does not love those who exult" (QUR'AN 28:76)


How to treat it? 

One should intentionally experience hunger and reflect seriously on death to treat this disease. To experience hunger one can either keep a voluntary fast or reduce the amount what one eats. Traditional medicines also stated that too much food harms the spiritual heart. It was believed that people who eat too much become "hard-hearted".
Scholar of various religions say that hunger is an important factor if one wants to grow spiritually. Feeling emptiness in the stomach is excellent for the body and the soul.
"Remembering" death, does not mean merley recalling it. It means one should reflect upon the state of the grave. 

Hatred


What is hatred?


Hatred in itself in not necessary a negative thing. One should hate corruption, evil, murder and anything that God has exposed as despicable. The disease of hatred is the strong dislike or hatred of a person for no legitimate reason. 

Do you want to see a man of paradise? A man then passed by and the Prophet (pbuh) said, "That man is one of the people of a paradise." So a Companion of the Prophet (pbuh) decided to learn what it was about with this man that earned his such a commendation from the Messenger of God, Muhammed (pbuh). He spent time with this man and observed him closely. He noticed he did not perform the night Prayer vigil (Tahajud) or anything extraordinary. He appeared to be an average man of Madinah. The Companion finally told the man what the Prophet (pbuh) had said about him and asked him if he did anything special. And the man replied, "The only thing I can think of, other than what everybody else does is that I make sure that I never sleep with any rancour (a feeling of hate, resentment, enmity, hostility) in my heart towards another" (Hadith)

How to treat it? 

One should pray for the person towards he feels hatred, asking God to give him good in this life and the next. When you do this with sincerity, hearts mend. The disease of hatred is one of the most devastating forces in the world, but the force that is even more powerful is love. Hate is the absence of love, and only love can cure hatred. 


Iniquity 


What is Iniquity?

Iniquity is defines as "harming anything in creation without just case". The problem is desiring things to the point of transgressing the rights of others to get it. "Love of position" is the main motivator for people to wrong others. It is not allowed to seek the pleasure of people through trickery,  religiosity or hypocritical flattery. Do not expect the pleasure of God when you seek the pleasure of His creation!

How to treat it? 

The cure for this is to "Remember the destroyer of pleasure (Hadith)." Remembering death is a spiritual practise that cleanses our hearts. Always remember that the thing that ultimately counts is how God sees you. Attaining nearness yo God is very important, and it does not involve wronging others. Be a person that is selfless, compassionate and sensitive to the rights of others.





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Wednesday, 15 January 2014

Purification of the heart by Hamza Yusuf

Purification of the heart, by Hamza Yusuf

Signs, Syptoms and Cures of the spiritual diseases of the heart

Translation and Commentary of 
Imam al-Mawlud's Matharat al-Qulbi


This book offers an insightful introduction to one of the most ancient of religious concers: spiritual purification of the heart.
It takes the reader through a well-known text from the Muslim tradition, and gives an important commentary that is relevant to our day to people if a variety of religious experiences.






Salam everybody,


inshaAllah you are all doing very well. I am really sorry i did not post anything so far :D 
It is always like that, when you try to start a blog (FINALLY!) you suddenly get really busy. Anyway, thanks to my dearest friend pushing me to post something ("Hey you know i am waiting to read something from you on your blog :D ) I finally take the time to write something.

I am planning a series of Blog-posts which are going to give you a summary of the book "Purification of the heart" by Hamza Yusuf. I myself am very impressed by the book and its contents which is why I would love to share the knowledge of this amazing book with you. The book is purely based on a poem by Imam al-Mawlud. Hamza Yusuf gives a english translation of it and also comments on the meaning of the poem.
It contains all of the important "diseases of the heart"and explains them. 



Introduction to Purification


Poem Verses 1-8

I begin by starting with the heart of beginnings,
for it is the highest and noblest of beginnings.
Have courtesy with God, the High and the Majestic,
by practicing modesty and humility—
Dejected out of shame and humility
humbled in awe, imploring Him—
By giving up your designs for His,
emptied of covetousness for what His servants have,
By hastening to fulfill His commands, and by being wary
of the subtle encroachment of bad manners.
If you—the spiritual aspirant—realize your attributes of servitude,
you will then be assisted with something of the attributes
of the Eternally Besought.

Courtesy: the heart of purification


Imam Mawlud starts his poem with "courtesy", since courtesy is the portal to the purification of the heart. You first must have courtesy with God (behave properly with respect to HIS presence) if you want to ourify your heart. There are two very important qualities that are associated with courtesy: modesty (haya) and humilty (dhul).

One needs to acquire Haya, an internal sense of shame that includes bashfulness and modesty. Islam takes the level of shame to another level, while other cultures think of bringing shame upon oneself and the larger family, Islam teaches us to feel a sense of shame before God. This is associated with the knowledge and awareness that God is all-seeing of what you do - a permanent reality.
The other quality that is mentioned is to have dhul ( ~ being lowly, abject or humbled), which means being humbled in the august presents of God. 


Freedom and Purification 

Next Imam Mawlud mentions freedom, which is a result of realizing the qualities of shame and humility and therefor removing their opposit qualities (shamlessness and arrogance).
With shame and humilty one can gain true freedom, wealth and dignity. People in today's world claim to be "free" yet they cannot control themselves (be it in regard to food, shopping etc), such freedom is no real freedom. 
Imam al-Ghazali speaks in depth about the desires of our limbs and organs. He calls the stomach and genitals as the two "dominators". Once they are under control, all other aspects of desire are under control too. The tounge also is regarded as a big obstacle, as many people cannot stop themselves from backbiting etc.
If ones heart is safe, so are his limbs and organs, because in the heart lies the inspiration of all deeds.

"When man wakes up in the morning each day, all parts of the body warn the tongue saying, ‘Fear God as regards us for we are at your mercy; if you are upright, we will be upright and if you are crooked, we become crooked.’" (At-Tirmidhee)

The Purification Process

Purifying the heart is a process, not something you do within a day or so. The first step is to understand the necessitiy of having courtesy with God, and trying to fulfill its requierments. The second step is to learn about the diseases of the heart, to be aware of their existence and ailments.
The heart is a spiritual organ that need to be taken care of and looked after. As mentioned in the hadith:


Abu Hurairah (raa) narrated: Allah’s Messenger May peace be upon Him said : “When a slave (a person) commits a sin (an evil deed) a black dot is dotted on his heart. Then if that person gives up that evil deed (sin), begs Allah to forgive him, and repents, then his heart is cleared (from that heart covering dot); but if he repeats the evil deed (sin), then that covering is increased till his heart is completely covered with it. - At-Tirmidhi, Vol 5 , Hadith No: 3334



This means each time we commit a bad deed, we are in danger of "blackening" our hearts if we do not step in immediately and ask God for forgivness. 

It is very interesting that Imam Mawlud says it is impossible to ever rid oneself from these diseases 100%. Therefore the purification of the heart is a lifelong process, something we always have to strive for. 

I hope you are inshaAllah benefiting from this posts.

Till the next time, take good care


Salma